Friday, October 31, 2008

HNL Praying

Recently I have been reading a book that is challenging me to get more serious about my prayer life. Don’t misunderstand, I never stopped praying to God, but I must admit that the quality of my communication with Him leaves lots of room for improvement. I really want to get serious about prayer.

Prayer is a great resource and a wonderful privilege that we just don’t take advantage  of as we should. It is something we should want to utilize to the fullest. I’m not talking about praying more often or longer, although I’m sure that will be part of it. What I am talking about is connecting with God on a much more regular and deeper level than I have been. When things are going well in my walk with God, my prayer life is great, but when my walk with the Lord struggles, so does my prayer life. I’m not sure which causes the other – I think they both leap frog along together and are dependent on each other.

What do I need to do to get serious about my prayer life? I’ve been more serious about focusing when I pray, pouring out my heart more sincerely, keeping lists of people I said I’d pray for, listening to God’s still, quiet voice speaking to me, and desiring to deepen my personal relationship with Him. It takes focus, it takes time, it means having my priorities right, and it demands honesty and openness in my time with Him, but it certainly is worth it. I really do want to get serious about my prayer life. What about you?


Thursday, October 30, 2008

Keeping It Healthy

One of the keys to a healthy student ministry is a healthy volunteer team.  I am not the smartest guy in most rooms, but I am smart enough to know that if I want to see a healthy student ministry it begins with a healthy group of adult volunteers who love God like crazy and are passionate about helping students take their next steps towards and with Christ.

 

I am constantly on the lookout and always challenging current leaders to be on the lookout for people who would be great in our ministry.  I am not just looking for young people who have a lot of energy and are warm bodies.  I have found that great  volunteers come in all shapes, sizes, and ages. 

 

Our process involves several steps: 1. All potential leaders fill out an application that asks questions about them personally, their relationship with God, their background, faith story, and references.  2. I interview them - I get their story, ask questions, etc. 3. I lay out my expectations of them - both as people, leaders, and in ministry.  (i.e. how they are to act, what they will be doing, etc.)

 

Below are some guidelines for choosing which volunteers to welcome onto your team and those to pass on.  It really comes down to 3 C's that most of us have heard about.

 

* Character, Calling, and Chemistry. 

 

Character: Any time I interview or talk to someone about volunteering with us I tell them I am looking for adults who have strong character and will be good role models to students of someone living a godly life.  I try and make my expectations of their lifestyle clear before they sign on.  I ask about how they spend their time and with whom.  Mostly I just listen to their story.  I ask if there is anything I need to know about them.  I ask follow up questions to address any unresolved areas that may come up. Often times those whose lifestyles are lacking and aren't willing to change will bow out right there; which is just fine in my book.  I would rather fire them before I hire them, so to speak.  Another good way to determine the type of character of new leaders is to call their references and ask around the church about them.  I am not looking for dirt, but red flags from staff and volunteers that might know them. 

 

Calling: I let potential volunteers know I am looking for individuals called to our ministry.  I communicate that I only want them if they feel God calling them, giving them a nudge, to this ministry.  If someone is called to our ministry by God the likelihood of them lasting long term is much higher than if they just want to serve for a while as they look for other opportunities.  Almost every one of my leaders, when asked about being called to our ministry, has said they felt a push and a desire or "call" to work with our ministry specifically.  When God taps someone on the shoulder and asks them to serve and they do it, long term volunteering is the natural and ideal result.  As a side note, I also give potential leaders the opportunity to "check us out" for a couple weeks before committing.  This is a chance for them to get a taste of what we really do in our ministry without too much investment on either side.

 

Chemistry:  As I meet with prospects for volunteering I am looking for individuals that have the potential to connect relationally with our current team.  I am looking for people who make good eye contact, who smile, who are willing to jump in wherever we need them, who are able to handle a bit of unpredictability, have a good sense of humor, and are excited at seeing life change.  Age doesn't matter to me I have seen all ages of people be amazing with students.  Chemistry is a huge deal when adding anyone to your volunteer ranks.  In the past, I have ignored some of my initial concerns regarding chemistry with the rest of the team and allowed volunteers to serve with us.  After a few months; however, the lack of chemistry became an anchor to morale and positivity in our ministry.  If I had been more intentional and listened to my gut at the beginning, I could have avoided the disruption to our team.  I am not looking for any one personality type I love all types- quiet folks, outspoken and goofy folks - they all add depth and diversity to the team - after all, our ministry reaches a wide range of students, so it only benefits us to have a variety of personalities among our leaders. 

 

A healthy volunteer team is one of the keys to growth in student ministry.  To me numbers do matter.  Not so I can talk about how big we are or how effective I am. They matter to me because numbers are a core component of the health of our student ministries.  It is a natural law...healthy things grow.  The goal of the church and of our lives as Christians is to spread the gospel and share Christ.  If our ministry is healthy it will grow.  If we aren't growing there is something about our ministry that is not healthy.  To me the first key to a healthy growing student ministry is healthy growing adults who love God, love being together, and love seeing the lives of students change before their very eyes.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

15 Ways to Serve

If are visiting this site and attend Barefoot Church and are not currently plugged in, here are 15 areas you can choose from to get plugged into our vibrant and growing student ministry.  If you are already serving as a volunteer for student ministry here are 15 areas we need to continue to recruit for!!!  

15 ways to serve in Student Ministry @ Barefoot Church: 

  • BIGGEST NEED: Relational MinistersAdults who are excited to connect with students each week. We believe that relationships are a key ingredient for life change…we need Godly leader who want to come and build relationships with our student each week.
  • Be a greeter…Be a friendly face and help us create a warm atmosphere
  • Guest Connect…Assist in connecting first time students
  • Work at our  Connection Section…answering questions, taking registrations, getting information to students
  • Cafe...prepare and serve food to our students during our mid-week service
  • Floater…Roam the tent looking for disconnected students—connect them to each other
  • Technology…Operate the Computer & Easy Worship shout for the service
  • Graphic Design…Design game & announcement slides, design series slides
  • Video Editing…Create & edit videos that enhance our service
  • Prayer Team…Pray for our mid-week service before it begins
  • Set-up & Tear Down…Assist our team in set-up and clean-up
  • Ministry Team Leader…Lead your own ministry team of students – help students get involved in a ministry
  • Stage…Be on stage leading games, giving announcements, and more
  • Behind the scenes…shopping & gathering supplies for the service
  • Follow-Up…Follow-up on student prayer requests and student pastoral care needs

Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Power of Communication

I was reading Acts 22 yesterday and pulled out some great stuff that really spoke to my heart as a leader and communicatior and I thought I would share a bit with you. Three times in the Book of Acts, you find Paul recounting his conversion. Twice he tells his story before government rulers. In both settings he adapts his story and emphasizes a facet that meets the needs of his audience.

As leaders if we are going to be effective, we need to not only know what to say but how to say it in order to most powerfully impact our listeners. When we speak, we need to take into account impact, not image. We need to constantly evaluate our audience and communicate in a way that best connects with our listeners and then help them make practical applications to the message God has given us.

Sunday, I was speaking to Clay, about how amazing it was that you can take the same message and slightly tweak it to appeal to different audiences and the effect that it has. Try reading Acts 22 and 26 with the intention of comparing and contrasting the accounts of Paul. What differences do you see? What similarities? Why would Paul emphasize one thing to one audience and another to a second audience? What can you learn from Paul about effectively shaping your message to different groups? (i.e. Middle School & High School students)

Monday, October 27, 2008

VALUES Part 2

6.) Being "Others Oriented":  It's important to put others first.  Live to give and care more for the comfort of another than for the comfort of yourself.

7.) Communicating Care:  It's important that we care for our students and each other.  People don't care what you know until they know how much you care.

8.) Follow Through:  It's important to be faithful to your commitments to students, leaders, and this ministry.

9.) Spiritual Growth:  It's important to continually and actively growing closer to Jesus.  We cannot lead a student to a place of faith if we have never been there ourselves.

10.) Prayer:  It's important to pray for our students, each other, our church, and this ministry.

11.) Living Invitationally:  If we don't ask, we will never have a response.  We need to be asking our students to take the next step in their spiritual journey, and we need to be asking other adults to come alongside us and serve on this great leadership team.

Friday, October 24, 2008

VALUES Part 1

Values are traits or qualities that are considered worthwhile; they represent an organization’s highest priorities and deeply held driving forces.  Effective organizations identify and develop a clear, concise and shared meaning of values/beliefs, priorities, and direction so that everyone understands and can contribute. Once defined, values impact every aspect of your organization. Over the next few posts, I will be sharing the values that our leaders are constantly reminded to live by in their ministry to students here at Barefoot Church.  

1.) A Willingness to Engage:  It's important to overcome fear and continually approach and engage with all kinds of students in our ministry.

2.) Laughter & Fun:  It's important to lighten up and enjoy the many blessings God has given us.

3.) Transparency & Authenticity:  It's important to be yourself, lower the masks, and be vulnerable with each other and the students we serve.

4.) Encouragement:  It's important to be positive and uplifting to everyone.  A student or leader should feel better about who they are after being around you.

5.) The Power of Being There:  It's important to be present in our student's lives.  We need to show up to their games, functions, and activities so they know they can count on us when things get hard. 



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Thursday, October 23, 2008

Serve the Servants

Our staff has been busy dreaming and brainstorming about goals for their specific ministry for 2009. As I have put pen to paper, I have spent much time with my wife thinking and praying through what it is we want to accomplish the first 6 months of 2009. One of the big areas I want to invest time, energy, and resources into this next year is volunteer hospitality...serving and honoring those who serve with me.

As leaders, we are to be servants of the teams we lead. However busy we are with programs or urgent tasks, ministering to the team is one thing we cannot afford to neglect. I see the tasks of praying for the teams I lead, spending relaxed time with them, and ministering to them as one of the most important details of my calling as leader of this ministry. Keeping this group united is a key priority (John 17:11) and at times has been the most absorbing challenge that I have faced (Ephesians 4:3).

As leaders, if we want to overcome the lack of commitment from people in our church, we as leaders must first be committed to our people. The example of Jesus giving his life for his friends was going to motivate these friends to give their lives for each other (John 15:12-13). In the same manner, when we as leaders show costly commitment to our people, they then will pay the price for their teammates. While Jesus is presented as the example to follow in the NT, he was also presented as a true example of suffering. My prayer is that we would adopt and maintain a lifestyle of costly servanthood in our relationships with others.